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  1. What purpose does a funeral serve?
  2. Why have a public viewing?
  3. What does a funeral director do?
  4. What is the purpose of embalming?
  5. What determines the cost of a funeral?
  6. Why would I want to prearrange my funeral?

What purpose does a funeral serve?

Funeral services are an important part of the healing process. Not only do they allow for closure after the loss of a loved one, they are also a time for family to renew ties with one another. It is important for families to take a role in arranging the service with the assistance of the funeral director. Those who attend the service should be comforted by familiar items, poems, songs and verses that their loved one held dear. Funerals are, in fact, as much or more for the living than they are for the deceased.

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Why have a public viewing?

Viewing is a part of many cultural and ethnic traditions. Many grief specialists believe that viewing aids the grieving process by helping the bereaved recognize the reality of death. Viewing is encouraged for children, as long as the ritual is explained and the activity is voluntary.

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What does a funeral director do?

Funeral directors are caregivers and administrators

  • providing professional advice but remaining open to suggestions and the family’s wishes
  • organizing the church 
  • liaising with the clergy, organist, caterer etc
  • supplying a book of remembrance which includes photographs of the floral arrangements
  • arranging appropriate floral tributes
  • insertion of notices in newspapers
  • providing a hearse and viewing room
  • providing a casket which meets with the family’s wishes
  • embalming by trained mortuary staff
  • arranging for either cremation or burial services
  • arranging for the placement of ashes
  • collating official forms from the doctor or coroner
  • filing death registration forms
  • Help secure any veterans’ burial allowance, social security or other benefits to which you may be entitled
  • offering a pre-paid funeral plan
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What is the purpose of embalming?

Embalming sanitizes and preserves the body,   retards the decomposition process, and enhances the appearance of a body disfigured by traumatic death or illness. Embalming makes it possible to lengthen the time between death and the final disposition, thus allowing family members time to arrange and participate in the type of service most comforting to them

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What determines the cost of a funeral?

There are many factors that will determine the cost of a funeral. Just as with other life rituals such as weddings, the cost will depend on how elaborate or how simple a ceremony the family chooses. A funeral director will provide a description of the options available and what they cost during the first family meeting or when an individual is preplanning a funeral.

In addition to the basic elements of removing the deceased from the place of death and caring for the body, a funeral director makes all the arrangements and attends to administrative tasks such as filing the appropriate forms, dealing with doctors, ministers, florists, sending obituary information to local newspapers, etc. A funeral director conducts a 24 hour, labor intensive business and maintains extensive facilities (viewing rooms, chapels, limousines, hearses, etc.) and these expenses are factored into the cost of a funeral.

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Why would I want to prearrange my funeral?

As with any important event in life, funerals require planning. You should plan your own service, in advance, to spare those close to you from the stress of attempting to make wishes they think would please you. If you take the time, before your time of need, to plan your service, those you care about will be allowed to grieve instead of worrying about arrangements. In addition, many prearranged services can be financed in ways that fight inflation and keep your investment safe

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